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He said it was his friends notes, but I know his handwriting.

I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and I do not understand why he won’t stop flirting with other girls.

I give him everything that he needs sexually, emotionally, physically and mentally, but still he flirts with other girls and has sexy conversations with them. You’re making a whole lot of assumptions in your question…

You say that you give him everything he needs sexually, emotionally, physically and mentally. you’re basically saying that you’re his perfect dream girl.

I don't see what good excuse he could have for doing that.

If he can't justify it, it's best to end things now than to waste any more time in a relationship that's doomed to fail.

He and I have been dating for about a year and a half now and are really open about things with each other.

I think he said he loved me, because he thought that's what I wanted to hear because I found two notes on his desk talking about how he thought this one girl was hot and if she was straight they'd be in a lot of trouble.

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I discovered by accident he had been using a dating site, and in the last two months had been winking and flirting with women on it. And he has made me feel like I’m such an awful person. (That’s why “accident” is in quotes.) But the problem here, is once you procure information in a covert fashion it’s very difficult to do much with it.

I didn’t say anything for a couple of days because I was in shock and wanted to be calm when I discussed it with him. But then he sent me an odd text saying he loves me. Once you tell him how you discovered the information he’ll immediately shut down and feel that you violated the trust of your relationship. However, even though you “accidentally” discovered the information, now that you have it, it trumps any argument he can raise.

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